By Astrid · 6 places
Show Them Why You Live Here
Where out-of-towners understand why you live here
Every December the guests arrive expecting palm trees and get handed an itinerary. These are the places I actually take people, the ones that work in winter light and need no explanation. By the second stop they have usually stopped checking their phones.
1Riverside
Mission Inn Hotel & Spa
From late November the Festival of Lights wraps the flying buttresses and domed towers in millions of bulbs. Go at dusk, when there is still blue in the sky behind the spires.
2San Diego
Balboa Park Spanish Colonial Architecture
The El Prado promenade and the California Tower give visitors the ornate, unhurried San Diego they imagined. Cross the Cabrillo Bridge on foot in morning light for the symmetry.
3San Diego
Old Point Loma Lighthouse
An 1855 lighthouse 422 feet above the sea, with the bay, downtown, and Coronado laid out below. Winter afternoons are clear here, and the grounds close at five, so make it the day's centerpiece.
4La Jolla
La Jolla Cove
Sea lions at close range against improbable turquoise water. It is the one stop that works for every age in the visiting party, and winter thins the summer crush.
5Laguna Beach
Crystal Cove State Park - Rocky Bight
The historic cottage district feels like a film set from the 1940s because it nearly is one. Walk the tidepools with the guests, then let them wander the cottages at their own pace.
6Palm Springs
Palm Springs Aerial Tramway - Mountain Station
Ten minutes from desert floor to alpine forest at 8,516 feet, often with snow at the top and 75 degrees at the bottom. Book tickets ahead; holiday weekends sell out.

